My Feathered Feet: The benefits of friends.

During your solo travels, you may feel a hunger that no amount of French pastries could possibly fix. You might become tired of listening to your ipod. You could have developed writer's wrist from too many intimate sessions with your journal.... you may notice yourself eavesdropping on a couple of friends having fun during a long train ride.

This is probably the point where it becomes clear to you that you have had a sufficient amount of 'alone time' and it might be a good idea to start making some friends!

There are many benefits to making friends on your solo travels. Here are some!

~ Conversation buddy. Sometimes there is nothing better than having a pal to pass time with on those tedious bus rides...
~ Sightseeing buddy. Not only will you have someone to wait in queues with, but you have someone who can take your photo when you wish!
~ Safety in Numbers. This applies to everyone but in particular for females visiting the more risky or unpredictable travel destinations.
~ New knowledge. This could be in any form. From culture, politics, art, music, travel to people. Never underestimate what you can learn from someone if you are willing to give them the chance to teach you.
~ Extend your global network. There is nothing better than having friends from different countries in this technological golden age. It's easy to stay in contact and see what is happening in their life over the other side of the earth. Plus you might get a visit from them one day... if you are lucky! :-)

I must admit, I have a tendency to romanticise over my travel friends because the connection is usually made so quickly and in such unusual surroundings that it becomes a meaningful bond immediately. I have met some of the most intriguing, intelligent and adventurous people on my travels and keeping contact with them often reassures me it's not such a big, daunting world after all.

You never know who is just around the corner so get befriending!